(1) Joy and energy are infectious. If you have a great time, others will too. (2) The point is effectiveness, not efficiency. Less than smooth is okay. Worship is human, not mechanical. (3) Let people operate in their giftedness. A world-class pianist shouldn’t be put on the bass. The effect is better when the expression is […]
Seven Things I’ve Learned About Learning New Games
(1) Learning takes several games. Repetition helps you absorb the rules, grasp how to win, and discern subtle advantages. (2) Play a practice game where veterans help newbies. Don’t worry about feeling awkward. It takes practice to work out the kinks. (3) Don’t care about losing. Focus on improving. Figure out how to learn. (4) Each […]
Seven Things I’ve Learned About Gifts That Require Assembly
(1) It’s normal to feel more puzzled than excited. “I didn’t ask for this. What is it?” (2) They don’t always make sense. “What’s with all these ropes, pulleys, and lag bolts?” (3) It’s tempting to let it sit. “I don’t have time for this.” (4) Consider the giver. “He’s a good person. He’s wise. […]
Seven Things I’ve Learned About Christmas (from Reading the Bible*)
(1) Jesus existed before He was born. The Gospel of John begins Jesus’ story before there were Wise Men, shepherds, or angels. John reveals the backstory: Jesus existed before the universe began; He is God; He created the universe (John 1:1-3). (2) Jesus is the heir to King David’s throne. The Christmas story features two […]
Seven Things I’ve Learned About Surviving a Child’s Suicide (from a Parent Who’s Been Through It)
(1) You never forget. “He’s everywhere I look. Sitting in that chair. Standing by the kitchen sink. Coming down the stairs. Watching television.” (2) You rage against God. “Why did you let this happen to our son? He was a great kid! We did our best to please you and raise him right — why […]
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